Sexuality and Pleasure


Many of these books can be ordered from the public library. Most of the books are available for sale from by clicking the title of the book.

Barbach, L. (2001). For Each Other: Sharing Sexual Intimacy. Doubleday Books, New York. 1982. ISBN 978-0385172967

Barbach, Lonnie. For Yourself: The Fulflilment of Female Sexuality: Revised Edition.. Signet. 2001. ISBN-13 978-045120200.

Brame, Gloria G. Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex. Fireside. 2000. ISBN 978-0684854625.
For those new to or curious about kinky sex.

Cattrall, K., Levinson, M. Satisfaction: The Art of the Female Orgasm. Warner Books. 2003. ISBN 978-0446690904.
How-to book for couples with great pictures.

Comfort, A. The Joy of Sex: The Ultimate Revised Edition. Harmony. 2009. ISBN 978-0307587787.

Dodson, Betty. Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving. Three Rivers Press, New York. 1996. ISBN 978-0517886076.

Easton, Dossie. The New Topping Book and the The New Bottoming Book. Greenery Press, CA. 2003. ISBN 978-1890159368.
Great follow-up books after SM 101 or similar.

Friday, N. (1998). My Secret Garden. Quartet Books. 2001. ISBN 978-0704332942.
A collection of women's sexual fantasies.

Haines, Staci. The Survivor's Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse. Cleis Press, San Fransisco. 1999 ISBN 978-1573440790

Hart, Jack. Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who Love Men-Revised Edition. Alyson Books. ISBN 978-1555834685.

Heiman, J., LoPiccolo, J, (1987). Becoming Orgasmic. Fireside. Piatkus Books. 1996. ISBN 978-0861887989

Hooper, A. (2001). Little Book Of Sex. Dorling Kindersley Ltd. 2005. ISBN 978-0756610364

Joannides, P. Guide To Getting It On!, 5th Edition Goofy Foot Press. 2006. ISBN 978-1885535696

Kaufman, Miriam. Cleis Press. The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness. 2007. ISBN 978-1573443043.

Lluch, A. The Ultimate Guide to Great Sex: Sensual, Fun & Exciting Games to Fill Your Relationshiop with Hot & Passionate Sex!. Wedding Solutions Publishing. 2002. ISBN 978-1887169288

Love, P. Hot Monogamy. Plume 1995.ISBN 978-0452273665.

Newman, Felice. The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us. Cleis Press. 2004. ISBN 978-1573441995.

Winks, Cathy. The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex. Cleis Press, San Fransisco. 1994. ISBN 978-0939416844.

Wiseman, Jay. SM 101: A Realistic Introduction. Greenery Press, CA. 1996. ISBN 978-0963976383.

Zilbergeld, B. The New Male Sexuality: The Truth About Men, Sex, and Pleasure. Bantam. 1999. ISBN 978-0553380422.